If you’re like most leaders, you’re using AI wrong. Not badly, just wrong.
You’re probably using it to write emails faster, clean up reports, or make presentations look sharper. That’s fine. But it’s like buying a sports car just to drive to the grocery store. You’re missing the real power.
The best leaders aren’t using AI to work faster. They’re using it to think smarter.
The Efficiency Trap: Why Faster Isnāt Always Better
Walk into any executive meeting today and you’ll hear leaders talking about AI like it’s a personal assistant on steroids.
“I used AI to draft that proposal in 10 minutes!”
“ChatGPT helped me respond to 50 emails this morning!”
“I generated that entire presentation deck during lunch!”
Great. You’re faster. But are you better?Ā
Here’s the problem: Most leaders use AI after they’ve already decided what to do. They’ve made up their minds, and now they want AI to help them execute. Write this. Summarize that. Polish this message.
That’s not maximizing AI. That’s just using a very expensive autocomplete.
What Leaders Get Wrong
The leaders who are getting real value from AI do something completely different. They use AI before they decide, not after. They use it as a sparring partner for their thinking, not just a tool for their typing.

Think about it this way: Would you rather have an assistant who just does what you tell them, or an advisor who challenges your thinking and helps you avoid mistakes?
That’s the difference.
From Personal Assistant to Strategic Sparring Partner
Let’s get specific. Here’s how smart leaders are using AI in ways that actually matter:
1. Stress-Test Your Big Decisions
What most leaders do: Make a decision, then ask AI to write an email announcing it.
What you should do: Before deciding anything, have AI challenge you.
Real scenario: You’re thinking about restructuring your team. Instead of just doing it, try this conversation with AI:
“I’m considering reorganizing my team by moving Chen to lead Product and combining the Marketing and Sales teams under one person. What are the biggest risks with this plan that I might not be seeing?”
Then go deeper:
“Okay, now pretend you’re Chen. How would you feel about this change? What concerns would you have that you might not tell me directly?”
“Now pretend you’re the person who might get the combined Marketing/Sales role. What would make this succeed or fail from your perspective?”
This isn’t about getting AI to make the decision for you. It’s about stress-testing your thinking before you commit to something that affects people’s lives and your company’s performance.

2. Diagnosing the Root Cause of Problems
What most leaders do: Think through the problem alone, come up with a solution, then ask AI to help present it.
What you should do: Use AI to break down the problem in ways you haven’t considered.
Real scenario:
Your sales are flat and you can’t figure out why.
Instead of jumping to solutions, ask AI:
“I’m trying to solve flat sales. What are five completely different types of problems this could be? Is this a pricing problem, a product problem, a market problem, a messaging problem, or something else?”
Then:
“For each type, what would I need to investigate to know if that’s the real issue?”
Many leaders discover they’ve been solving the wrong problem entirely. You can’t fix a messaging problem with a pricing solution, but without stepping back to diagnose properly, you might waste months trying.

3. Running the “AI Pre-Mortem” for Strategic Planning
What most leaders do: Create a strategy, then ask AI to make it sound better.
What you should do: Use AI to find the weaknesses in your strategy before you present it.
Real scenario:
You’re launching a new service line. Ask AI:
“Here’s my strategy for launching this new service: [explain it]. Now imagine it’s two years from now and this launch completely failed. Write the post-mortem. What went wrong?”
This “pre-mortem” exercise is gold. AI will identify risks you didn’t think about: market timing issues, resource conflicts, competitive responses, internal resistance. You can address these before they become real problems.
Then ask:
“What would our biggest competitor do if they saw this strategy? How would they counter it?”
Now you’re not just planningāyou’re planning for what happens when your plan meets reality.
The “Question Before Command” Framework
To maximize AI, stop starting with instructions. Start with questions.
Task |
ā The Execution Approach (Faster) |
ā The Thinking Approach (Smarter) |
Strategy |
“Write an announcement for this policy.” |
“What are three ways this policy could backfire?” |
Analysis |
“Summarize this 50-page report.” |
“What are the risks a skeptic would find in this data?” |
Meetings |
“Draft talking points for my presentation.” |
“What tough questions will the smartest person ask?” |
How to Shift Your Leadership Habits Today
You don’t need to overhaul everything. Just try this:
This week, before you make one important decision, pause. Don’t ask AI to help you execute. Ask it to help you think.
Pick something real: a hire you’re considering, a strategy you’re developing, a problem you’re trying to solve, a difficult conversation coming up.
Then ask AI:
- “What am I not seeing?”
- “What could go wrong?”
- “What would someone who disagrees say?”
- “How else could I think about this?”
Have a real conversation. Push back when AI challenges you. Defend your thinking. But listen to what comes up.
You’ll be surprised how much sharper your thinking becomes when you force yourself to examine it from multiple angles.
AI can make you faster. That’s nice. But AI can make you better. That’s powerful. Most leaders are settling for nice when they could have powerful.
The technology is here. The question isn’t whether you’re using AI. It’s whether you’re using it in a way that actually makes you a better leader.
Fast emails and polished presentations are fine. But better decisions, clearer thinking, and fewer mistakes? That’s what transforms leaders and organizations.
So ask yourself: Are you really maximizing AI? Or are you just using an incredibly sophisticated tool to do the same things you’ve always done, just faster?
The best leaders know the difference. Now you do too.


